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When Life Attacks: Sometimes you’re not ready, but sometimes you just think you aren’t.

Times, they are a-changing here at Painfully Hip.

On the 4th of July, my landlords stopped by for a “chat” and promptly informed my roommates and I that they sold their current residence and were moving into our large and profoundly cozy home. Out on our asses in 30 days. I found myself slightly panicked and instantly lamenting the loss of our shady party porch, my sunny, bright, spacious and always cool bedroom, music-filled living room and newly re-landscaped (with our very own girlsweat, no less!) backyard with a dear-god-in-heaven-so-deliciously-womblike-hammock, all nestled in the heart of the most conveniently located, tree-lined and vintage shop-ridden neighborhood in all the land. Ah Midtown Sacramento, how I will miss thee.

While living in Vancouver, BC (my previous hometown of seven years), I had somehow transformed into a reluctant recluse in spite of my nature. But during less than 10 grateful months of living in this stunning little Capital City, I am knee-deep in the dearest of friends, fashion shows, photoshoots, the near center of the local fashion and music scenes, featured in local culture papers and being offered fashion columns in local magazines.

I’d have to say I’ve definitely come into my own via this nurturing little town, but I’m afraid I’ve become a sort of “Sacra-lebrity” (thanks for the word, Steve-Mo). I can’t enter a bar without a chorus of friendly voices marking my arrival and I am not likely to walk out my front door without being happily accosted by a familiar face or a reader. I haven’t lately introduced myself to someone without them already knowing something about me. My friends just happen to be my neighbors and my irrepressibly fantastic roommates quickly became my family. I feel loved and supported, overwhelmed and grateful. Not to mention simultaneously exhilarated and terrified. And perhaps just a little bit… claustrophobic.

I have grown to adore this town and it’s homeyness, ease of living, lack of rat-raciness, and it’s seductive way of turning gung-ho wanderlusters into delirious homebodies… but I have always wanted to travel excessively. However, my penchant for long-term relationships and dead-end 9-5 jobs had up until now kept me imprisoned in my complacency.

Now that I have made the frighteningly synchronized leap to self-employment and singledom, my possessions have been whittled down to necessities, and (many thanks to the internet, my invaluable and dear tech genius Carl, my loyal readers, sponsors and design clients) my job is contained within this 5 pound Macintosh, and my wanderlusting heart is all my own. Fuck rent and a fixed address, I am totally portable. I have no choice but to take full advantage of my freedom and this fire under my ass.


I’ve got to get out of here.

Now the only question is “Where to?”

If all goes as planned, the premise of this blog will be changing. Instead of only searching the internet for the fashion-savvy elite, I will be searching the world. Posts from me will be fewer, but infinitely more inspired (I’m lining up amazing guest posters to pick up my slack). I will be living off a few dollars a day and flying by the seat of my proverbial high-waisted pants, floating to wherever the wind sees fit. I’ll be meeting up with readers and bloggers, throwing swaps, searching for wifi hotspots, working from sidewalk cafes.

The plan so far. Next month I am off to stay for 10 days in Vancouver to then hop on the Role Mach tourbus for a West Coast roadtrip where I will attempt to learn their vaguely Boredoms-inspired songs on my ukulele and take photos of small and large town hipsters. Want a painfully hip haircut for a mere donation? Come over to the merch booth. I might be waiting with unlicensed, but terribly talented scissors to attempt to help pay for the liquid gold that will power us down the highway.

In September, I’m returning to gregarious and windy Chicago. My amazing friends, Ira and Andrea are generously lending me their guest room for a month or so. I’ll be documenting street style and teaming up with Andrea’s droolicious Forkable Blog to document dinner party revelers and haute cuisine. I plan on getting extremely fat.

After that? Who knows? After couch-surfing for a bit I should be able to afford an overseas fare. Front running destinations are Bangkok, Copenhagen, or possibly Marrakesh. I refuse to specify time limits at this point. Let’s just call it the Painfully Global World Tour. But what I’d really like to know is, where would you go to find inspiration on a limited budget, oh Legion of the Painfully Hip? A place where a lone (but hopefully not lonely) girl can wander- aimless and free of paranoia. Should I come to your neck of the woods? I am giddy with anticipation and on a mission for self-realization. I’ve never been here before. What else can I say but Thank You. You’ve made this girl’s dreams feel a bit more tangible. I’m so glad to have you along for the ride.

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24 Comments so far (Add 1 more)

  1. Bangkok is more expensive than the rest of SE Asia. Try Vietnam and Cambodia ($.012 beer in Vietnam). The markets and fabrics are insane and the culture is very inspiring.

    2. AP on October 10th, 2008 at 3:00 am
  2. If you hit up boston you can stay in our loft and thrift shop with me all week.

    6. punky on July 23rd, 2008 at 2:51 pm
  3. Come to London, I’m sure we could squeeze in a itinerant blogger for a while. Make sure you visit Berlin too, you wont regret it.

    7. Isabelle on July 17th, 2008 at 1:40 am
  4. What a great life plan! If you need a short-term “chillax” as my 10-year-old says, along your journey, come to Goodrich, MI for a while, look us up! Admittedly, not much fashion-wise going on here, but it could be a restful stop on your way to the glam stuff. I’ll have to vicariously experience these other places through your posts –sigh. Wishing you the best, babe.

    8. TC on July 15th, 2008 at 6:06 am
  5. What an extremely exciting opportunity. I can’t imagine how wonderful it must be to have such wide open possibilities–and it sounds like you already have some fantastic plans lined up. I’d love to see a Painfully Hip hosted swap in Seattle but I couldn’t see bypassing Morocco if I had the chance!

    9. ambika on July 14th, 2008 at 7:24 am
  6. sounds like heaven. you’re sure to make waves wherever you end up!

    10. Caroline on July 11th, 2008 at 11:59 pm
  7. Ahhh that gypsy soul….. Enjoy your travels, Speaking from experience You always seem to change more when you get back than your home ever does.. So don’t hurry back.
    Bangkok is a massive trip, amazing markets :)

    11. kimmy on July 11th, 2008 at 2:34 pm
  8. OH MY GOODNESS!!!! Will you be going about Canada? I live in SK, come here!!! But I’m so excited fo you and hope that you get out of this adventure everything you hope for. Despite the fact that I am INSANELY jealous, I’ll miss your daily posts. And I just don’t know how I’ll find the wardrobe remix star of the day on my own :) Have a wonderful time!

    12. Nicole on July 11th, 2008 at 2:01 pm
  9. when i lost my job three years ago, i used my last paycheck to buy a plane ticket to germany (then took a train to france because i don’t speak german)! this is very exciting, m’dear, though sacramento will surely miss you.

    13. Lisa Frank, PhD on July 11th, 2008 at 11:10 am
  10. asia! asia! i live in singapore and its summer all year long!

    14. kay on July 10th, 2008 at 8:08 pm
  11. What an exciting crossroads! You are going to have such an experience. And I am pleased to hear you’ll be in Chicago, it is a great place to live. I am moving to Ukraine in September, so if you need a remote Eastern European couch…your stylish fanny is welcome to perch on mine. ;) Good luck!

    15. Natasha on July 10th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
  12. SO excited for you! You better get your ass to Portland at some point–and email me when you do!

    16. Winona on July 10th, 2008 at 6:17 pm
  13. Don’t forget about little old New England! I live in Newport, Rhode Island and it’s pretty amazing here in the summer months, we’d love to have you!!

    17. fidgetfinds on July 10th, 2008 at 5:01 pm
  14. Have A Great time traveling.

    Also, you should come to Washington DC before you leave the country

    for your European adventure.

    18. Kyla Camille on July 10th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
  15. Good luck dear beautiful Amber. I envy you to no end at this moment. Live it girl – you only got this one life. The universe will take care of you and this magnificent world needs exploring. We all look forward to your entries. Safe travels to you. Cheers.

    20. Amber Husten on July 10th, 2008 at 2:37 pm
  16. Definitely stop by Seattle on your trip through the west coast. Once you see past the hoards of emo kids, there’s really a lot of awesomely dressed people here.

    21. jane on July 10th, 2008 at 11:59 am
  17. Aw lord- I’m going to miss missing you at the many hip Sac-events out there! Still- I applaud your attitude- isnt that a record? “When life gives you lemons you paint that shit gold”? For the record, I’ve heard that Cheyenne Wyoming has the best thrift stores in the country (really!) and I’m glad to hear you’re rocking a hammock this summer too- seriously, hammocks are like the new crack. Have a going away party & invite me & Sasha!!!!

    22. Chris on July 10th, 2008 at 9:27 am
  18. Vancouver…*squee*! Email me when you’re here, lady!

    23. nicholle on July 10th, 2008 at 9:20 am
  19. London, Berlin, Prague, Budapest

    24. Binx on July 10th, 2008 at 5:54 am
  20. I second Stockholm. Göteborg is also a favorite. I’d also recommend taking a drive up to Madison, WI while you are in Chicago. September is such a great time to be in the Midwest, and the early fall vibe on State Street in Madison is ridiculously perfect…not to mention plenty of locally owned boutiques, vintage stores, and the finest ethnic cuisine selection I have ever seen.

    25. Kajsa on July 9th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
  21. As for Europe: Stockholm, Paris, Vienna, Sevilla

    26. Dorien on July 9th, 2008 at 10:52 pm
  22. I’m so excited for you! Congratulations lady :)

    27. Miguel on July 9th, 2008 at 5:10 pm
  23. Wow, that’s amazing! Come visit Seattle. I’d go to Copenhagen.

    28. Amelia on July 9th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
  24. warsaw, poland

    29. michelle on July 9th, 2008 at 4:24 pm

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